Mate, she was already 2 days dead when you wrote this.
For a really good cognitive exercise in empathy, which is what Kathy was all about at the end of the day, go re-read all your communications with her in this context. It's literally the first thing I did when I heard, and my communications, arguments, debates, and love with her go back to 2001.
Then re-read her main article.
Then reiterate to yourself how "probably it is better to say more careful things" to a person who suicided and whose entire life work was literally her cry for help that the... (read more)
Mate, she was already 2 days dead when you wrote this.
For a really good cognitive exercise in empathy, which is what Kathy was all about at the end of the day, go re-read all your communications with her in this context. It's literally the first thing I did when I heard, and my communications, arguments, debates, and love with her go back to 2001.
Then re-read her main article.
Then reiterate to yourself how "probably it is better to say more careful things" to a person who suicided and whose entire life work was literally her cry for help that the... (read more)