I just wanted to share this excellent guest essay, by Stefan Schubert & Lucius Caviola, we've just published on utilitarianism.net. As the authors argue: "in order to be effective in the real world, utilitarians should stake out a middle way [between common sense morality and naive utilitarianism]. They should by and large adopt the standard common sense virtues. But in addition to them, they should also adopt six virtues that go beyond the common sense virtues. While a utilitarian life is pretty normal in some ways, it is very different in others."
I appreciate the links, these are exactly what I was looking for! I'll be browsing through them as I get some time!
It seems like you're on the "expert-master scale" to my "novice - apprentice" level. Philosophy ultimately won't ever be much more than a fun hobby of mine, but I've always loved diving into some of the deeper stuff. Would you be open to me reaching out and talking with you as I comb through this and come up with questions?
I understand you're probably busy, so if you have recommendations for some other resources or places to engage people with ideas like this (even if just to read what they write), I would appreciate those too!