Thank you, Austin!
A non-comprehensive list of events, to my knowledge: EAG SF, MLAB, many socials open to EAs (announced e.g. the Bay Area EA Facebook), apply-only or invite-only retreats, like GCP's X-Risk summits.
(I wouldn't be surprised if there were 2x more events than listed here.)
I hope this is helpful.
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