It seems not implausible that almost every recruiter has been biased in this way to some degree--bias is usually quite hard to avoid. If this is an under-appreciated pattern in the community, then hopefully, this question will make it more recognized, and EA professionals will try harder to give honest answers to young EAs seeking career advice.
By dishonesty, I mean to include things like not mentioning counterfactuals or the replaceability of the role, or just generally seeming like they are more excited about the impact then they should be given the evidence and crucial considerations.
I don't know if I would call that "oddly worded" -- since my intention was to elicit stories about dishonesty, it's aptly worded.
There is a separate question of whether it is bad to raise negatively biased questions like this, which I'd be happy to discuss. To be honest, I didn't think of the downsides of a negatively-biased question, I just thought "huh, I wonder how much dishonesty there is in EA; maybe there are others who, like me, expected everyone to ... (read more)