I am reading On Virtue Ethics by Rosalind Hursthouse. The last one 3rd of the book gives a naturalist account on what character traits is virtue.
The author suggests that, when we say a wolf is a good wolf, it must contribute to
- The survival of itself
- The continuance of its species
- Its own characteristic pleasure and characteristic freedom from pain
- The well functioning of its social groups
Similarly, when we say a human is a good human, he/she must behave in a way that contributes to these four ends. And a virtue is a character traits which makes a human a good human.
Using this standard, the author casts doubt on the
the claim that completely impersonal benevolence conceived of as, perhaps, Peter Singer would conceive of it, is a virtue.
This is because it fails end 2 and 4.
The onus is on those who recommend impersonal benevolence as a virtue to provide at least a speculation about how a species of rational animals who had brought themselves to care naught for their own children or each other's company might still be a species of social animals who, moreover, nurtured their young—and, indeed, went to the trouble of giving them a moral education and bringing them up to be impersonally benevolent in their turn.
If you think impersonal benevolence is indeed a virtue, how would you response to this skepticism?
If you are interested in the book, I have written a summary of the last part here.
Of course Hursthouse's account of ethical naturalism could be mistaken. (I am not totally satisfied with it either). But I just don't see how morality can be seen as "objective" without appealing to human nature in some way. (I know Derek Parfit has a book On What Matters defending moral objectivity. But I have not had the guts to dive into it.)
As for "impersonally benevolence", I agree that it doesn't necessary has to conflict with the well-being of one's family. For example in Alienation, Consequentialism, and the Demands of Morality, Peter Railton argues that maybe to be it is may be the case that a do-gooder can do more good if he/she be a bit partial -- If you have a happy family, you may have a lot more energy to help strangers.
But I do think this is not necessarily always conflict free. For example, Peter Singer was once accused of being hypocrite because he and his sister put their mum with Alzheimer's disease in a caring facility, which cost a lot of money.
Did helping his mum motivated Singer to do more good later in his life? Maybe. But it would be very hard to do the calculations.