I've been an EA for a while and over the years I mentored and connected to probably over a hundred people.
I feel like in retrospect I mentored with hubris. I assumed that certain support is going to be there for those who deserve it and that certain things I was told about priorities could be trusted even if I didn't look into them myself as thoroughly as I'd have liked to. But this recent event makes me wonder if I should have been more careful in my advice.
I hesitate to keep mentoring before I pull back to reflect. At the same time, I still have commitments and I don't want to let these people down. But I also feel uncomfortable saying anything with high confidence at the moment.
How can I keep engaging with mentees in ways that will be true to my feelings, but won't rob them of advice and guidance that could still be useful?
Be honest with your mentees. Share your feelings of concern and diminished confidence. Your value as a mentor isn't that you have nothing left to learn; it's that you're slightly further along the learning process and you're willing to share.
So, here you are, learning your way through the current crisis (as we all are!). To my mind, the advice and guidance that you can offer now is even more important, because the lessons that you're learning (against hubris, towards greater humility and carefulness) are worth sharing.
Model the behavior you want to see in your mentees. Don't quit now. Learn and try to to better.