[EDIT: I realize that this is not always true and am definitely interested in arguments/evidence for that too]
For context, I lead a university group and constantly find myself talking to members about why I don't think there is a real sacrifice to wellbeing in choosing to work on the most pressing problems [as opposed to the ones that students gravitated to when they were young]. Any resources that address concerns about sacrificing happiness when using EA to inform career plans would be much appreciated!
Why not encourage students to experiment for themselves? Try a summer internship or volunteering or taking a class on a topic where they could help solve one of the world's top problems, as well as exploring areas they've been drawn to since childhood, and keep an open mind as they explore.
I think a lot of people will find it really satisfying to see how they can help people, but some people might genuinely be happier working on something they've been interested in since childhood, and we shouldn't try to deceive those people!
This is a good option. I hadn't really considered this. And I agree that we definitely shouldn't try to deceive anyone.