Thank you for speaking up—it takes a lot, especially when women in EA often face such unproductive engagement for doing so. I'm sorry for what you've been through.
There are so many of us who see the issues you're pointing at and want the community to properly reckon with this. As you say, despite what many believe, victims are often not rallied behind and are too often met with a wave of excuses made for their perpetrator.
I have so much I could say, but for now, you have so much support behind you, and I deeply hope this can be a step towards a safer EA 🩷🩷
Thank you for speaking up—it takes a lot, especially when women in EA often face such unproductive engagement for doing so. I'm sorry for what you've been through.
There are so many of us who see the issues you're pointing at and want the community to properly reckon with this. As you say, despite what many believe, victims are often not rallied behind and are too often met with a wave of excuses made for their perpetrator.
I have so much I could say, but for now, you have so much support behind you, and I deeply hope this can be a step towards a safer EA 🩷🩷