I was brought up in a very religious environment. After reading this comment I'm reflecting on what I'm finding off-putting about that upbringing:
- The idea that there is a clear divide between good and evil.
- The idea that there are unforgivable sins/heresies.
- The idea that sexual things are bad, or are particularly bad.
- Laying claim to humility and being the underdog even though one's group has a lot of power.
- The idea that arguing against sacred beliefs is bad.
- Shaming those who have sinned and demanding that they repent.
- The idea that everything considered evil must/will be punished severely.
- ... and more.
I find myself agreeing with much of the comparison that the comment makes.
FYI, if people want to look into what aliens might value, an interesting direction might be to think about convergent evolution. One (the only?) existing book on the topic: The Zoologist's Guide to the Galaxy/ Quanta magazine article. Geoffrey Miller mentioned related work in a comment a few months ago.
Is this pointless speculation? I suspect knowing about what aliens might value would be useful in understanding how to better implement Evidential Cooperation in Large Worlds (ECL) (right now, right here, on Earth) although some people may disagree with me on that.
I've also encountered thinking that this could help avoid/reduce conflicts with aliens (which may motivate work on it from various longtermist perspectives).
I guess this kind of stuff would be particularly suited for people with an evolutionary biology/related field background but it also seems like people can pick these things up quickly/use AI assistants to help out.